Yesterday, my buddy, Phil, sent me a link on facebook to a Sha Na Na concert at the Brown County Arena that happened 30 years ago in 1981. He wondered if that might possibly be the show we saw with my parents. That was an eventful night where lots of things happened, but it didn't feel like 1981 (8th grade) to me.
I did some research and found this website listing all concerts at the BCA. It is not complete, but it did find an August 12, 1979 show - Sha Na Na and The Shirelles. Phil and I would have known who Sha Na Na was - they had a TV show and were the band in the Grease film, but I'm pretty sure we weren't familiar with The Shirelles.
Here are the stories that make me think we saw the 1979 show.
I wasn't sure how Phil and I ended up going. I have a vague memory that we met some of my parents friends there, so I thought maybe we tagged along on a couples night. My Mom tells me that I wanted to go to the show with a friend, and they weren't comfortable with us going alone, so they came along. She confirms we did meet some of their friends who were sitting nearby.
The four of us drove their together in my Dad's 1973 BMW 2002 (clue number 1, he traded that in for the 1980 Avanti) very much like this one. It was a tiny car, and he was able to fit it into a tiny parallel parking spot right in front of the Arena. I remember he was quite proud of that parking job, but someone took umbrage with how close he parked to them and kicked a dent in the door. Mean streets of Green Bay in the 70s!
Honestly, I don't really remember the show. I was getting to the end of a phase where I really liked the idea of the 50s. Happy Days, Grease - who didn't want to be Fonzie or Danny Zuko. By 8th grade I was starting to figure out my own musical tastes (definitely influenced by Steven La and his brother and sister.) Summer between 6th and 7th grade, I may have still been interested in 50s culture, but I slammed the door on that pretty hard shortly after.
The other story is that we had really good seats. Second or third row. During the Sha Na Na set, they had a dance contest, and three of the band picked out three cute girls from the audience to be their dance partners, and Denny picked my Mom, Bonnie. They danced to one song and big Lenny announced the winner. My Dad must have had his camera because he got this shot. Lenny is announcing the winner and the prize...a dream dance with Lenny!
I suspect Denny was the best dancer in the band and could get the most out of his dance partners. He probably won the contest most nights. A sad side note is that he died in 2015. It sounds like he had an interesting career outside of music. He graduated from Yale Law School and taught entertainment law at as a Professor at the University of Dayton Law School (all this is from wikipedia.)
Another memory that makes me think it was the 1979 show is that I have an image in my minds eye of getting out of the car that night. The arena loomed close by, it was a nice night, but it felt like summer was waning and there was a very nice sunset off toward Lambeau. I had to double check that Lambeau is west of where the arena was, and it is. If that memory is accurate, it feels like August.
Phil, thanks for the question generating the second essay on the replacement for my elfners.com website. I am glad we have this memory from early in our friendship. My respect for Sha Na Na increased in high school when I learned they played at Woodstock. As a kid, I just focused on the new songs from Grease - Summer Nights, One That I Want, but I have revisited that soundtrack and really enjoyed what Sha Na Na was playing at the dance. One of the numbers, 'Those Magic Changes' was in the original broadway Grease. It is playing in the background under dialog, but John Travolta sings along for a bit. He did a lot of Grease on Broadway.
Note: On the new blog sites, I am trying to limit PII to first names, but I guess I just aged us too by saying what grades we were in. This is hard!